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“Way Forward builds people back up to regain their independence and self-worth, solving an unsolvable problem”

Emily knew she needed to leave her relationship, and that this was going to cost. She needed money to pay legal fees and something left over for her and her two children to live off.

After borrowing $15,000 to pay lawyers, she quickly spiralled, ending up with multitude of payday loans. She fell into a trap of borrowing to pay down the most pressing repayments.

“I was stuck in limbo and getting deeper into debt.”

“I would watch the amounts I needed to repay on those payday loans get bigger and bigger.”

At this point, Emily had tried a few different things to get on top of her debts.

She had spoken to a debt consolidation company, but after realising that the company would not guarantee an outcome and could advise she declare bankruptcy, even after she had paid their fees. Emily also did not want to be advised to declare bankruptcy.

“I didn’t want bankruptcy following me around and also meant I couldn’t pay off the debt and it’s important that I do that”.

“It was daunting to think of having a bad credit rating for 5 years, and that there is not really any way around it.”

“I also tried to pursue a debt consolidation loan with my bank, but they said no.”

Living instead of existing

Emily was referred to Way Forward from the National Debt Helpline.

“As soon as I contacted Way Forward, everything felt so easy.”

“Way Forward gives you the sense that they believe that you can do this, you can pay off your debts. They make you feel like they’re backing you.”

“They feel like they are advocated for you as a person, and that’s very heartening.”

“I spoke with Bill, who took the problem, and said, we’re going to look after this for you for a while.

“They offered me a solution and I felt good about that solution.”

“Everything has changed – where creditors were taking money out of my bank account, I can now save a little bit of money.”

Budgeting becomes easier

As a single parent on a fixed income, Emily has always used a budget.

“Recently, a medical bill came up and instead of asking to borrow money from family, I had $1000 in savings to put towards that.”

“I was able to buy birthday presents for the kids and do something special instead of buying something tokenistic.”

“I need to upgrade my car soon so I can potentially drive longer distances to a different job, and now I’m considering saving to buy that car rather than borrowing.”

Person-centred approach

Having recently started her repayments, Emily is relieved that the feeling of constant dread she had from not meeting her debt repayments is now gone.

“Way Forward seem to have a focus on trying to build people back up to regain their independence and self-worth to solving an unsolvable problem and resolve a crisis.”

“It’s so discreet, no one needs to know about this, it feels like it’s between me and Way Forward, and there’s a lot of respect attached to that”

She suggested that people who are struggling, would benefit from thinking beyond what they know about money and finances, because “when you’re in a debt trap, that’s all you know”.

“There often is a way out, we don’t know the right people to talk to.”

“My advice to anyone is is in trouble is to think beyond where you are now, unless you do something active, you won’t get out of it.”

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“I’m living proof Way Forward’s service works”

Three years into her repayment plan, Katrina can’t wait to pay off her debts and begin a new debt-free chapter

New country, new opportunities

Migrating to Australia many years ago, Katrina recalls being faced with a bewildering number of things to learn and opportunities to explore. When she eventually landed a full-time job in private healthcare, she started earning a comfortable wage and a new, exciting phase began for Katrina, her four kids and partner.

As her husband was retired, Katrina was the sole bread winner and worked two jobs to financially support her family. At this time, many lucrative offers for all types of credit started popping up around her. She had a comfortable salary and the offers seemed too good to miss so she didn’t think twice.

“I never used credit cards or anything like that in my home country so I was pretty clueless financially, which eventually landed me in a total mess.”

“At the time, my wages had to cover living expenses for a family of six and on top of this, I also sent money to my parents to take care of them. When my late father became terribly ill, I flew the whole family back home to see him.”

“I also paid for my family’s holiday in the US where I put way too many things on my credit cards. After my husband passed away, I’m glad I still have those family memories and I don’t regret that decision but years later, I see how managing my finances had gone totally overboard.”

Finding a way out of debt

Soon the interest rates of Katrina’s loans and credit cards became so enormous, she had no money left to feed her family. She requested a 3-month hardship arrangement from the banks but when that period was over, the same loans and interest rates awaited her.

Katrina was working around the clock to end her debt cycle but when no viable solution seemed to exist, she fell into deep depression.

“It was too difficult to tell my extended family about my debt and ask to borrow money so I kind of just swallowed it all.”

“Sundays used to be my day off from work that we’d spend together as a family doing fun outings. But I didn’t want to get up anymore. I remember just lying on my bed feeling depressed and exhausted. It was the worst feeling.”

When negotiating her debts with her banks, a customer service agent at Westpac advised Katrina to contact Way Forward for help.

“I felt I had tried everything and nothing had worked so Way Forward seemed too good to be true. I felt there had to be a catch to what they were proposing.”

“When I was offered these reductions on my interest rates and option to simplify all my payments into one direct debit to Way Forward, I couldn’t believe it. I had a way out!”

“When my plan was approved, it felt like this heavy thing was lifted off my shoulders and I could move a little bit more freely.”

Living proof Way Forward works

Today, Katrina has two years left of her five-year debt repayment plan and excitedly awaits to become a debt-free woman.

Katrina has been so happy with the free service that she’s told many people about Way Forward and even referred a friend who is over a year into her payment plan. The friend also referred someone else to Way Forward.

“I am inspired to work more to pay off this debt, to finish it. What has helped me is being able to take my family out again because I know my budget and how much spare money I have left at the end of the month. I feel more in control of my finances now.”

“In the next few years, I’ll be able to finish. Imagine if I could save as much as I’m putting into my debt repayments! I could do something else like save for a big project once I’ve paid off all my debts. That thought keeps me energised.”

For anyone in financial trouble today, Katrina has this advice, “Don’t think twice about contacting Way Forward.”

“In three years, I went from depression and feeling like there was no way out of my debts to feeling so inspired and making financial plans for the future. I am living proof it works! I can’t thank Way Forward enough for turning things around for me and my family.”

Way Forward helps clients in three simple steps:

Step 1: We evaluate your circumstance and financial situation.

Step 2: We take over negotiations with creditors and act your behalf.

Step 3: We put together a manageable repayment plan and budget. You make one reoccurring payment to us that we then distribute to all creditors, 100% of which goes towards reducing the debt.

If you’re stuck, get help. Pick up the phone and ask for support. Find out if we can help you.

Use our free budget planner or debt repayment calculator.

There is no reason to struggle alone as help is out there.

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“Way Forward was exactly what I was after – a mechanism for us to consolidate everything into one single payment.” 

Miguel started taking out loans to pay for everyday expenses for his family, like food, nappies and petrol after both he and his wife lost their jobs.  

They were forced to sell two properties and start renting again. 

“When the downturn of the economy came it was not only us but many people were out of a job. So unfortunately, we had to use credit cards to meet our basic needs.  

“This went on for 7 months until I found work. My wife couldn’t get work so we were living off one income, which was significantly lower than what I was earning previously.  

“We were just surviving with credit cards.  

“The expectation was that my wife would get another job and then hopefully we could catch up but that didn’t happen. The longer we waited, the worse it got because our cash flow was negative every month.  

“We had two very young children at the time. One was newborn, and the other one was in daycare at that stage. It was tough.” 

Miguel was referred to Way Forward by Bank West after he had tried to negotiate repayments on a credit card that he was struggling to pay. 

“I got in touch with Way Forward to see if we could find alternatives to mitigate the level of debt that we had at the time to match our cash flow. That was the main tension. 

“I visited Way Forward’s web page, and thought, this is exactly what I was after – a mechanism for us to consolidate everything into one single payment and to find a way to reduce the payments. 

“I spoke to Way Forward’s Hardship Advocate Tara and then started a process of collecting all the information required to present a case.  

“There was also good communication with Tara, which made it much easier.  

“The other important factor is that it’s not all on me because Way Forward has an important part in this process, which is the communication for each institution and ensure that the information makes sense. 

it took a couple of days for both parties to get to a point where it was presentable to the financial institutions. And if you consider that I had 17 different credit cards across different financial institutions, we’re talking about a lot of data.” 

“It was a team effort.” 

When Miguel first started to try to access help to address their financial issues, he contacted a financial planner.  

“The communication was not very good. After we lost our property, he wasn’t very proactive in helping us to find more intelligent ways to face the situation.  

Eventually, he contacted a financial counsellor who helped them immediately with COVID-19 financial relief.  

“If we were ever in this situation again, I would go straight to a financial counsellor. 

“It was a one-hour session with the financial counsellor and she put a plan in place.  

“I understood then that by having a financial counsellor alongside with you, it helps because it will give you a different perspective on your situation instead of to trying to figure it out by yourself. 

“After the period of COVID-19 passed, then she couldn’t help us anymore, which is how we ended up being referred to Way Forward by Bank West.  

He also says that if someone is unable to meet their repayments, it’s important to “speak up straight away”. 

“The bank can wait a little bit, but it is an obligation.” 

Miguel is comfortable with their monthly payment arrangement with Way Forward, however, he describes that meeting the repayments can sometimes feel overwhelming.  

“You can’t stop another payment so there’s some pressure but it’s the same with mortgages, you feel like you have to meet your obligations.  

“I feel pleased that my salary covers the repayments. And the best part probably is that we’ve got a light at the end of the tunnel.  

We know that it’s going to be only five years, and it will be less. We will do things to speed up this process. My wife and I said we are working on different things to generate more income so that it is not just my salary.  

“We want to finish with this as soon as possible.” 

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Jodie needed to pay for my daughter’s medical treatment or fall behind on her debt… being a mother, she picked her daughter’s treatment

Jodie knew there was a problem when she had to started sacrificing paying off her debts in order to pay for her daughter’s medical treatment.   

“I’ve struggled financially over the past couple of years with unexpected medical expenses for my daughter who suffers from anxiety and depression for about seven or eight years. She has an eating disorder. It has become more severe in the last three to four years.  

“I’ve always tried to pay my debts and cards on time, but I knew that something had to give.  

“It’s a very different choice to say: do I want to buy that dress, or do I want to pay my credit card bills? You know exactly the right thing to do.   

“Here I had to pay for my daughter’s treatment or fall behind on my debt and ruin my credit rating, but I didn’t really have that choice. Being a mother, I picked my daughter’s treatment. 

“I never wanted my daughter to think that I was struggling. I didn’t ever want her to think she is a burden.   

“She hasn’t worked for several years because she’s always in and out of hospital. She’s in hospital now and has been there for about three months already.  

“To see that she’s only 24 years old and having to struggle, I want to try and help her as best I can so she can live a normal life.”  

Jodie says that before he daughters condition deteriorated, she was managing her debt repayments and could see a pathway out.   

“Many moons ago I took out a Part 9 agreement. And I realised that I did not want to go down that path. And that’s why I always made sure that I paid everything on time, I was never behind in my payments until all these added expenses started to creep up.  

But at one point, her daughter became quite sick, requiring an expensive treatment of up to $500 a fortnight, which was not covered by Medicare or health funds.  

“It’s added to my own anxieties. There’d be times when I went to sleep and not know what to do. But as a mother you just need to sort of be strong. There’s not much else I can do.   

“I’ve always worked within the finance industry. I never knew about hardship until one day I gave somebody at CBA a call about not being able to make a payment. How much they helped me was tremendous and were very compassionate it was CBA that told me about Way Forward.   

“I was a little bit skeptical at first, thinking that Way Forward was about bankruptcy and debt agreements.”  

Jodie has been working with Way Forward’s Hardship Advocate Bill to come up with a plan to manage her debts.   

“Bill is absolutely amazing to work with, and when he explained the process to me, I felt this sense of relief.   

“Talking to him, it was just like a weigh came off my shoulders. Because I could see a future for myself, where I might be debt free.   

“My anxiety improved. I’ve already got other things to worry about, like, my husband and I are going through a separation. Now, my daughter’s sick. I have all that stress already. But knowing that this is not a stress anymore, has totally improved my life.  

“I’ve created my first vision board for 2021 and one of the big things on the top of it is to start saving for a house. I’m going to be 50 this year but I want to start saving for a house. And I can see that in five years’ time, I’m going to be financially stable.   

 Her advice to anyone struggling with debt? 

 “Don’t be afraid to take the step.” 

If you’d like to know more about how Way Forward can help you: 

Enquire here or call us on 1300 451 343

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Brad had been in survival mode for a decade trying to pay off debts until he could no longer afford groceries

When Brad turned 18 years old, he took out his first loan. He borrowed money to buy the things he always wanted as a kid but could not afford: a big screen television and a new sound system, and a nice secondhand car. Fast forward 10 years and his was unable to pay off those debts anymore, in fact, he could no longer afford groceries. He was in trouble and needed help.  

“I was worried about my financial situation for a long time but always had that couple of hundred dollars saved up. Then suddenly, I couldn’t afford anything at all. I had to ask my parents or someone else to help me.” 

“That’s a hard circle to get out of. You save up money and then another random expense comes up. And you’re back to square one again. 

“All the banks say yes to lending you money because you’re an 18-year-old. Then suddenly, you got four credit cards, each maxed out. I’m 29 years old now, I didn’t do anything about my finances until I was 28 years old. I just kept paying off the monthly fees.” 

 Brad says having a well-paid job means that he was able to borrow money easily. He took our several loans.  

“Ten different bills add up, they are nothing by themselves, but together they add up to a lot.” 

 He said his debts and challenging financial situation started to take its toll on his health and wellbeing.  

“It made me go and drink. It made me think, well, I’m not going to get anywhere, let’s just spend this 50 dollars on alcohol because there’s no point trying to save it.”  

“Money was that major stress; it just shuts down your life.” 

 Brad says he sacrificed experiences and moments he would rather have had.  

“I had friend’s weddings, I couldn’t go either interstate or on a holiday. I’ve never been overseas; I’ve never done any of that sort of stuff.  

“Being in survival mode, you think spending money on yourself is a waste of money. I’ve got the mindset that a holiday is a waste of money. Which I don’t believe it is. Experiences are experiences. You need to have them.” 

“That was what triggered me to change. And now, what I’m paying for my debts through Way Forward is 100 percent manageable. 

 Brad then sought help and called the National Debt Helpline who referred him to Way Forward. 

 “Way Forward put together a budget. I was included in the process and given all the necessary information to keep me informed of the process and outcome.

“It taught me how I could manage it eventually on my own.  

“It is about being empowered by knowledge and learning how to exactly manage your money moving forward. 

“I still want to have the ability to make those mistakes. And choosing the correct path rather than making those mistakes.”

 Brad is feeling much better about his financial situation.  

“Money is no longer a stress. I still have all these loans to pay off. But it’s no longer keeping me up at night.  

“Once every two or three years, I would refinance. I would put all my credit card into the one personal loan. It helped a little bit but then I could also get an extra few extra thousand dollars to have in bank account and in three months’ time, it was all gone. It wasn’t manageable. 

Brad had previously sought help from a fee-based service to help him with his debts.  

“Their business plan is to take part of the money, that’s just never seemed right to me. It helps a bit but it’s taking money from someone who’s already struggling.  

 “There was no there was ulterior motive with you guys ever had because it is a free service.” 

 

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Angeline knew she was in trouble when she couldn’t afford groceries even though she earned a decent wage

Angeline has a job and earned a good wage, however, she made a few financial mistakes that got her into a level of debt she was unable to pay off.   

“I just got too involved in credit cards. In the end, I had no money. It was the biggest mistake that I ever made. It’s so easy to get them.  

“I got into strife earning frequent flyer points. I had enough to go to LA, when I could have saved for a holiday.  

Realistically, I didn’t have money for it. Looking back, they also had the highest interest rates.”   

She then took out a personal loan to pay for my credit card debt.  

“At some point, I refinanced my home loan to keep my house and cover my debts. Because of that, I lost the home loan equity, which could have been used for better things – like renovations in my home.   

“The scariest thing – you can see your debt going up, but you just can’t stop spending, thinking one day you’ll pay it off. And before you know it, you owe a huge amount of money, and that’s when the real stress kicks in.”  

Angeline contacted Way Forward who were able to help her get on top of the situation. They came up with the repayment plan and negotiated with her creditors. Her regular payments make sure she stays on top.   

“Now I can see things a lot clearer. I’ve got a budget, and I have a little card that I write all of my expenses on. I absolutely have to follow it, because whatever’s left over is all I have. 

I also make sure I pay all my bills on time every single month. And I don’t get any calls from any of the banks anymore. It’s made a huge difference for my mental health”.   

 On the outside, Angeline says it appeared like she has it all – a well-paid job, a lovely house, a good lifestyle.  

But in reality, she says she is struggling to make ends meet.   

“Don’t feel embarrassed about it. It’s not just you. 

Although it’s a difficult situation, you can get out of it.  

Because I have a nice house and a decent job – people think I can afford it all but I really struggled and made some bad choices. This experience forced me to change and to really look at my financial habits.”   

 

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Joe’s business was struggling but the COVD-19 pandemic led to an unexpected turnaround

The COVID-19 pandemic has been a destructive force across the country and the globe. For many businesses, it has been a difficult and stressful time. However, for some, the nature of their business, whether it be producing hand sanitiser or masks, means that have been able to carve out small to large successes.    

Joe has been running his own business for several years. In 2019 over a six-month period, he started to struggle financially. The business was experiencing a downturn that led to financial hardship.   

“It was a combination of the business downturn and Christmas and then coming back after Christmas and not a lot happening. It’s a domino effect.”   

Joe has been working with Way Forward’s Hardship Advocate, Paula.   

“She just takes care of it.  I just got to ensure that I’ve got money in the account every month and it’s all happens in the background. There’s nothing that needs to be done now. I just make sure that I keep the payments up.”   

For Joe, once the pandemic hit, whether through a changing economy or change in consumer habits, he started to see an increase in demand for the packaging products his company sells. This meant that he had income available again to pay back creditors. However, he still needed to negotiate a payment plan.    

“Way Forward have done a fantastic job but the positivity I’m getting is the turnaround in the business that allows me to have the money every month.”  

“The team there have done a great job in being able to negotiate with all the creditors and allow me to have one payment per month to pay everybody.  

“If the business wasn’t doing well, I’d be stressing about it every month, where I’m going to find the money that I’ve got to pay to pay everybody back? The way it was set up with Way Forward, was great.”  

Although rewarding in many ways, Joe explains the challenges and stresses of running his own business.   

“You think about your business all the time, you think about cash flow, where your next projects coming from. It’s 24/7.  

I did have savings and the savings just went and then you have school fees and things like that. So, it all just adds up.  

Joe also describes how time consuming the calls from creditors became.    

“When I look back at it, it was really time consuming. And when you’re running a business, and they’re trying to sort this out, it was it just eats up a lot of time. “   

“Every time the bank would call, it’s an hour trying to sort it out. You just end up avoiding calls.”   

Joe had contracted a company to sort out his debts. Without informing him, they decided to not work with him anymore, which left his creditors in the dark. This means by the time he had come to Way Forward, he had to go through the process for a second time.   

“They didn’t tell me this, but they decided that they couldn’t make any money out of it, so they dropped me. And that left all the creditors wondering what’s going on, because I hadn’t been paid.”   

After Joe was referred to Way Forward by BankWest, he went through the process of trying to work out a repayment plan.    

“It was all very sort of transparent and relatively easy, but still took time.”  

Joe advises that for people experiencing financial difficulty, it’s important to talk about it.   

“Maybe it’s a male thing but sometimes we tend to bury our heads in the sand a little bit.    

“If you can confront head on you will get to a resolution and you can move forward. I would just suggest tackling it head on. There might be a little bit of pain in the short term, but long term, there’s some definite gain.” 

 

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Trying to hold everything together in tough times – Naomi’s story

“When your soul mate is falling apart and you’re the backbone trying to hold everything together with two children struggling with epilepsy, your mind finds it very hard to think straight without this tremendous weight on your shoulders, wondering if you’ve done enough to pay the mortgage whilst keeping food on the table and being able to afford the kids medication.”

As a result of losing work and health issues, Naomi’s life was falling apart. She was unable to negotiate with creditors to develop a repayment plan. 

“I was repeating myself repeatedly to debtors hoping they understand. 

Naomi is now working with Way Forward to manage debts that were growing every day. Their situation is improving gradually. 

I’m not going to work in tears, I’m not scared to answer my phone, I’m watching our mortgage dwindle away back to where it should be.   My partner was able to find work and we’ve been able to start rebuilding a safety net. 

We see ourselves swimming back up to the surface now, we don’t feel like we are weighed down unable to catch a breath. 

We’ve also promised ourselves to save our money for things we’d like and stay away from the quick easy loan shark way of life. 

Naomi had reached out to another paid service to assist with their finances, which she felt did not assist their situation. 

It blew our confidence right out. 

“Way Forward has provided us peace of mind and if anyone was to talk to me about their financial issuesI’d be handing over Way Forward’s number. 

Overall, we are just so relieved we got the help.  It’s almost like someone was watching over us. 

If you’d like to know more about how Way Forward can help you:

Enquire here or call us on 1300 451 343

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Amir went from falling behind to getting ahead

It started with being a bit excessive. The debt and the excessive spending and then the interest rate, I couldn’t catch up. It was so difficult to keep up with the monthly repayments, and then I had the interest rate hitting me from the other side.

Amir was ahead. He had saved a decent deposit for a property and was working in a job that paid well. Until the day he was approached by a family member to contribute money for a joint property. He knew he was unable to refuse.  

This property became financially burdensome very quickly. He was asked by the same family member to borrow more money to contribute again to the cost of the home. This pushed Amir to the edge. He was taken out loans that he could not afford. He felt pressure to continue to contribute financially.

Amir felt controlled and unfairly treated in these family relationships. He was paying the bills on the property. 

He eventually moved out of the home he was sharing with family members. He continued to pay the mortgage, but now, was also paying rent on his own place. He was forced to sell. The money he retrieved from the sale was a small portion of what he contributed to the initial deposit, additional lump sum payments and mortgage repayments.  

He was also in debt from balancing these expenses that he could not afford.  

“I was exhausted. I had support of friends but not of family, it was terrible. 

“It started with being a bit excessive. The debt and the excessive spending and then the interest rate, I couldn’t catch up. It was so difficult to keep up with the monthly repayments, and then I had the interest rate hitting me from the other side. 

“It has changed, I don’t buy anything that I don’t need not because I can’t afford it but because I have changed.”   

The hardest thing for Amir was managing the interest rate and the multiple credit cards.   

“It was my fault, I did take out the loan, and I wanted to deal with the issues.”  

“I called Way Forward, and spoke to Paula, the angel. It wasn’t just how she helped me, it was how she spoke to me.  

“She gave me the assurance that there is light at the end of the tunnel. And we can do something, and she was absolutely amazing. To hear her voice, and the comfort it gave me, I started to sleep again at night. 

“I used to feel like there’s nothing left for me in this life. It was really tough.  

“Way Forward has changed my life in a really positive way. I enjoy my work. I got promoted, I am doing so well in my work because my focus is on my work and not on anything else. I’ve been paying off the money each fortnight and I’m even saving some money now.”  

His message?

“Don’t lose hope.

“Yes, it’s going to take me three years, but it’s already been 6 months, these three years is going to be nothing. No matter how big the debt, just approach the right people.”

If you’d like to know more about how Way Forward can help you: 

Enquire here or call us on 1300 451 343

Use our free budget planner or repayment calculator.

Struggling to pay for the essentials such as food and rent and want to know more about your options? Our emergency funding page lists some of the available free emergency services and funding if you live in Australia and find yourself in financial difficulty.

 

Dave – finding hope again

“There is still a fair way to go. I am not jumping over fences with enthusiasm or anything like that, but my optimism is certainly rising”

Dave dreamed of creating the idyllic family home for his wife and two children. He borrowed more money than he could pay off, in order to make sure that the house was complete.  

However, Dave says that the debt he accrued ended his marriage.   

“It eroded her trust in me, and it all became too much. The hardest thing was the realisation that I was in financial trouble and secondly, as a result of that, it cost me my marriage. 

Going from living in a house with two daughters, two dogs and a big house, to spending a considerable amount of time by yourself, that was horrible. 

I spoke with a couple of the financial institutions and they said they could help me for a certain amount of time.  

One of the customer service representatives from one of the banks that Dave had borrowed money from and was struggling to pay back, referred him to Way Forward, where he spoke to Way Forward’s Client Service Manager, Paula. 

You are absolutely drowning in emotion.   

The very minute I hung up the phone from Paula, it was like half a foot had come off my head.  

You can’t function at work, you can’t function as a father, you can’t be expected to bounce out of bed in the morning and do a run or a bike ride. You are crippled. 

When I was in the mental predicament that I was, it was almost too late.   

Had the person at Bank West not referred me to Way Forward, I hate to say it, but you and I wouldn’t be probably having this conversation.  

Debt has a direct correlation to mental health. You’ve got the talk about it.  

There is still a fair way to go. I am not jumping over fences with enthusiasm or anything like that, but my optimism is certainly rising. 

Dave believes that financial institutions should be encouraged to use or promote hardship services more.  

When the red flags go up on the system where you’re probably carrying too much of a mortgage, you’ve got too many debts, that is a red flag.  

They talk about responsible lending, but it is not responsible lending. That’s the big difference between responsible lending and this, there must be proactivity. 

 

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Amanda – with money issues, education is key

“It felt like you were in an endless spiral of going nowhere.”

Like many young people, Amanda dreamed of buying her first car, and taking an overseas trip.

At 18 years old, she borrowed money to fulfil those goals. But then the unexpected happened a few years later: she had to find funds for medical bills and things started to spiral. She borrowed more money.

“I borrowed a large amount of money I wasn’t really in a position to be paying back. I was so oblivious to my lack of understanding.”

“My interest was so high that half of my payments were going in interest. And that was the case for 2 years, I was going nowhere. I thought that I would just work even harder, make extra money to pay off the interest.

“It felt like you were in an endless spiral of going nowhere.

“I was working so hard, putting all this money away. It was extremely defeating. I was looking into bankruptcy. Somebody put me onto you guys, and it was a lifesaver.”

Amanda describes the interest repayments as “completely depleting, it sucked the life out of me, thinking of how much I was putting in and then how much I was getting out.”

“My mental health was really poor because it pushed me into a state of burnout because I was trying to get on top of it.”

Now that Amanda has a budget and a repayment plan, she feels like she has her life back.

Her advice? “Educate yourself.”

“I had relationships completely deteriorate. My partner and I really struggled for about a year because I was constantly at work.

“My whole quality of life is different now. I can spend time with my friends and family and feel like I have the choice. It’s a feeling of freedom.”

Amanda had previously spoken with hardship services that were unable to assist her given her circumstances did not fit their criteria.

“They have a box, if you don’t fit that box: ‘sorry we can’t help you’.

“You guys crafted a box for me, and if there was something that I couldn’t fit, you were really person centred.

“Everyone from you team that I’ve dealt with, especially Paula, has been absolutely amazing.

“And that made me feel like I wasn’t judged, like you were going above and beyond, and that I matter.

“There is a lot of shame that comes from being in this situation, you feel like you are not good enough because I am in debt.

“I felt like I was heard and that I was worthy enough to be helped. It really gave me my life back. And I am so, so thankful for it. Paula is an absolute legend.

The way that she made me feel, the calming influence that she had, that get me emotional. I was feeling so overwhelmed. She made me it so easy. And I am so thankful. It’s changed everything.”

If you’d like to know more about how Way Forward can help you: 

Enquire here or call us on 1300 451 343

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Peter on feeling heard again and having a positive outlook

“My outlook is a lot better…. I have something for my kids, I’ll have something to give back to them”

Peter had debts piling up, creditors chasing him for repayments and could not see a way to stop the phone calls and letters. He needed a solution.

“The way it was before, I was dreading getting letters, emails and phone calls. I had got myself in a situation that I am not happy about. You guys were able to develop a plan that can help me to be in much better place.

“My future now has meaning.”

“From the very first contact I had with Way Forward I was listened to; I was shown empathy. It’s probably the first time I’ve had that from financial assistance.”

It has been over 6 months since Peter commenced his repayment plan. Since that time, he said he has gotten himself back on track and can see a light at the end of the tunnel.

“My repayment plan has made a big difference.

“It wasn’t until I got in contact with you that you were able to put forward a solution that was manageable and achievable.”

If you’d like to know more about how Way Forward can help you: 

Enquire here or call us on 1300 451 343

Use our free budget planner or repayment calculator.

Struggling to pay for the essentials such as food and rent and want to know more about your options? Our emergency funding page lists some of the available free emergency services and funding if you live in Australia and find yourself in financial difficulty.

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