Financial abuse in Australia
Financial abuse takes many forms but is ultimately all about power and control. From accessing your money without your knowledge – or under duress, to someone preventing you from earning an income or spending your money the way you want to, it’s one of the most powerful tactics abusers use to keep people trapped in relationships.
Recovering from financial abuse is about more than money – it’s about the ability to handle your own situation, in your own way, and to have your freedom and independence respected and reinforced. For Way Forward, that means providing support without judgment or expectation.
What is financial abuse?
While financial abuse can be experienced along with other forms of abuse, like emotional or physical abuse, they don’t necessarily go hand-in-hand – abuse is abuse, whatever shape it takes.
Whether you’ve had money stolen or withheld, been coerced into obtaining loans, defrauded or had your financial affairs controlled by a partner, family member, carer – or anybody else for that matter – you may be experiencing financial abuse. And it’s not ok.
Financial abuse (also known as economic abuse) can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, religion, sexuality, ability, education or socioeconomic background, however certain circumstances can increase our exposure to risk. Financial abuse is most prevalent where there is an imbalance of power, for example among people who:
- Are experiencing language barriers, or have difficulty reading, or directly accessing services
- May be socially isolated or dependent on others for their basic needs
- May have difficulty understanding complex concepts or making decisions
- Are reliant on others for help with the management of their financial affairs
- Are already being subjected to other forms of abuse, such as domestic and family violence
- Or whose family background or beliefs might cause them to be excluded from financial decision-making.
Indicators of financial abuse
While financial abuse can be hard to detect, there are a few key indicators to look out for:
Is someone telling you how to spend your money, or stopping you from spending it how you want to?
That might mean discouraging you from spending money on basic needs, including things like home maintenance, to protect assets for inheritance. Or perhaps limiting access to finances, refusing to contribute to the household budget and requiring you to account for your own spending.
Is someone preventing you from earning your own money?
If someone is preventing you from leaving the house, making demands of you during working hours, nor denying access to transport and so on, they may be making it impossible for you to hold down a job and maintain an independent income. In doing so, they may make you completely reliant on them or, perhaps, leave you without access to funds at all.
Has someone taken your money or assets for ‘safekeeping’?
Controlling or coercive behaviour might include taking your wages, social security payments or other allowances, or requiring you to move your assets into someone else’s name. Doing so can leave you extremely vulnerable.
Has someone accrued debt in your name?
This could mean spending freely on shared accounts or joint credit cards, leaving you financially exposed, or even fraudulently using your identity documents to access credit.
Are any of your possessions missing, or are there unexplained withdrawals from your account(s)?
Whether someone has physically removed items from your home or transferred/withdrawn money from your account without your permission, theft is theft.
Are the sums just not adding up? Unexplained shortfalls or payments unexpectedly in arrears?
If the people you’re relying on to help aren’t providing receipts for shopping or other financial transactions, it pays to be vigilant. If you’re suddenly, and unexpectedly, finding yourself short of money, it might be a good idea to take a closer look.
Have you been pushed to give away assets or gifts?
That might mean being pressured to change your will, persuaded to make unusual monetary gifts or coerced into signing over your home to a relative.

